丈夫对我越来越冷漠，时常无故对我发怒。他不反对我修炼大法，他也知道大法好，他只是因为害怕中共而反对我走出去维护大法。
我说服不了他，他也说服不了我，我们在这大逆境中暴露出了我们不同的人生观。
但不管他怎么对我，我始终温柔待他，从不争辩抱怨。
师父教我们遇到任何麻烦和矛盾时都要先找自己的原因，向内找。所以我从不要求他，只要求自己做好，不断从自己身上找原因，看自己有什么地方做的不够好，然后修正它。
一天，我正在厨房做饭，他突然走进来诚恳的对我说：“我突然意识到我这段时间对你很不好，老是骂你。我怎么骂你你都不回嘴，这种善良、忍耐终于让我感觉内疚了。”
他跑出去买回来一张黄、蓝色混杂的新被子，笑眯眯的问我：“知道我为什么挑这种颜色吗？”
“不知道。”
“因为黄色和蓝色是大法书封面的颜色！”（待续）
(英文对照)
My husband became colder and colder to me. He often scolded me at will. He didn’t oppose my practicing Dafa; he knew Dafa was good. He was just scared of the CCP and therefore opposed my safeguarding Dafa openly.
I couldn’t convince him nor could he convince me. Our different outlooks of life were being exposed amidst this great adversity.
But no matter how he treated me, I treated him kindheartedly and never argued or complained.
Master Li taught us to search our inner hearts and look for causes within ourselves whenever encountering a problem or a conflict. So I never required him, but only required myself to do well, ever searching my inner heart to look for where I fell short and then correcting it.
One day while I was cooking in the kitchen, he suddenly came in and said to me sincerely, “I suddenly sensed that I’ve been treating you really badly these days. I’ve often scolded you. No matter how I scolded you, you never fought back. Such benevolence and tolerance finally made me feel guilty.”
He ran out to buy home a yellow –and- blue-colored new quilt. “Do you know why I chose this color?” he asked me smilingly.
“I don’t know.”
“Because yellow and blue are the colors of Dafa books’ covers!”
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